Wednesday, May 23, 2012

daddy's girl


i wish everyone could have a dad like mine.  he has been my best friend my whole life, though i'm sure there are parts of my stinker teen-age years that he and i have both tried to forget.  i have always been a "daddy's girl."  and today is this daddy's birthday.  he is the best daddy and now is the best grandpa to my nieces and nephews.  sweet heart of 1, father of 7, grandpa of 6, and one of the most self-less people i have ever known.  happy birthday, daddy!

the picture above was of our trip to disneyland when i was about 4.  it was just the 2 of us and i was in heaven to have all that attention to myself for a weekend. 

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

to find a roof over our heads



i wish i had a picture to post of a house, our house more specifically.  we have been looking at houses since we got married, and even more seriously these last 6 months.  we have date nights several nights a week looking on mls for new listings.  we spend many saturdays driving to find open houses, and to going to appointments of house showings we set up.  last night we toured a house that i fell in love with.  the inside of the house is 95% done how i would want it to be done (white kitchen with farm house sink, claw foot tub in master bath, white subway tiles in the showers, wood floors, big windows for lots of natural light).  i just wanted to stay there hoping that if i never left that they would just let me keep the house.  we found another house today that blake loved the outside of.  it just went on the market yesterday and already it is under contract.  i guess you've got to act fast with these things. 

we are trying to be patient and be open to what God would have us do.  there are so many big things happening in our lives right now:  i graduate on thursday, therefore i need to find a job.  we don't know if we should buy a house in phoenix or mesa/gilbert and that will greatly effect how far i am to drive to this job i am suppose to find.  we want to have kids at some point; when do we have them? what schools will they go to (in what school district is this house suppose to be in?)  we have such fun things ahead of us.  here is to the unknown and to endless possibilities.

Monday, May 7, 2012

no messin' with sister mesen



after leaving miles city, i was transferred across the whole state of montana to "ronan, mt: my living grave."  (something one of the ladies we pseudo-taught used to say).  i don't know how people could live in such a beautiful place and not believe in God, that he created all that beauty.  and having lived in arizona for so long, i definitely appreciated the beautiful mountains.  i got lots of mountains in salt lake, but nothing compared to the mission mountains in ronan and st. ignatius. 

i was there serving with sister stephanie mesen.  man do i love this girl.  she did not like to cold.  in fact, i think it is safe to say that she hated the cold.  and man did it get cold.  we would tract in -20 degrees F (much colder if you include the wind chill).  we covered some small towns.  ronan was the biggest (i just looked it up and in 2010 it still only had a population of 1,871) and we covered one little town that the "downtown" was a convenient store with one gas pump, and a seasonal beef jerky stand.  so it only took a little while to knock on all the doors in the town before we had to start venturing outside of town and hiking up in the mountains to find someone to teach.  since this was my only chance to do the more traditional missionary work, i wanted to put everything i had into it, (not like i didn't put everything into my work at temple square).  i probably drove poor sister mesen crazy with how much i wanted to get done.  i wouldn't let us stop for lunch most days.  i would just pack snacks for the car that we could eat while we drove to appointments.

i learned so much during my time with sister mesen.  i learned more than ever before in my mission that serving my companion was so important.  she was my "most progressing investigator."  i am so grateful for our time together and how much it prepared me for the rest of my mission, further church service, and marriage.  she was the only companion i had for longer than 6 weeks.  (at temple square we changed companions every transfer while i was there.)

quick funny story, one night i was apparently talking in my sleep.  i never talk in my sleep unless i am in that state somewhere between asleep and awake; asleep enough to think it is ok to talk, awake enough that i can talk.  i was teaching the plan of salvation when i was interrupted by my now awake companion saying, "sister florence, it is not time to teach, it is time to sleep."  i was now slowly starting to wake up.  still thinking it was a little real and also feeling a little prideful, i responded, "hey, someone in this room needs to hear this."  then she, a little upset perhaps and a little freaked out about a potential, "someone" in the room asks who was in the room.  we both fell back asleep and laughed about it in the morning.

i got to see stephanie a couple months ago at sister willhite's wedding.  she and a bunch of the other montana sister came down from utah.  (yes, my cold-hating-companion chose to move to utah after the mission.)  it was so good to see her.